Resources
To support families in Healing, Growing, and Flourishing
When I first learned of peaceful parenting, I didn't know many people in real life who parented this way, so books and blogs were one of the main ways I learned more about this approach to parenting.
These books below align with the peaceful parenting approach, and are the ones I've turned to for inspiration, guidance, and practical tips on everything from taking care of babies, building strong connections with our kids, and what to say to build resilient kids.
Each title has been handpicked to support you on your parenting journey, offering insights that resonate with the challenges and joys of raising children.
Take a look, and I hope you find something here that helps you feel more empowered and at ease in your parenting. If you decide to read one (or many!), I'd love to hear your thoughts!
Books
Babies | Toddlers
Bottom Line for Baby
From Sleep Training to Screens, Thumb Sucking to Tummy Time--What the Science Says
By Tina Payne Bryson
This is an evidenced-base book that will help you make informed decisions for your baby's first year.
Parenting Right from the Start
by Vanessa Lapointe, Adrienne Fish
This book will help you to set the foundation for a peaceful home with specific tools you can use right from the beginning.
No-Drama Discipline
The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind
by Elizabeth Pantley
A gentle approach to healthy sleep habits. I was never ok with letting my babies cry without me. If you're needing more support with baby's sleep, I recommend this method. Full transparency: we co-slept and that's how I got the most sleep.
The Younger Years
Brain-Body Parenting
How to Stop Managing Behavior and Start Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids
By Mona Delahooke
If you've had a hard time understanding why your kids do the things they do, this is the book to read! It helps parents look beyond the difficult behaviors, gain understanding, and get to the root of what's happening.
Playful Parenting
by Lawrence J Cohen
This book makes parenting easier and more fun! It is full of ideas of ways you can add playfulness into your already full day. These strategies and ideas will get your kids laughing and will lessen the power struggles! A win-win!
Raising Securely Attached Kids
Using Connection-Focused Parenting to Create Confidence, Empathy, and Resilience (Attachment Nerd)
by Eli Harwood (aka The Attachment Nerd on social media)
This is my favorite new book! It's an easy-to-read blueprint for parents who want to raise emotionally healthy, resilient children
No-Drama Discipline
The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind
by Tina Payne Bryson PhD, Daniel J. Siegel MD
This one is filled with practical, easy to remember tips to use "in the moment." All of the books by these 2 authors are excellent.
All Ages
Peaceful Discipline:
Story Teaching, Brain Science & Better Behavior
By : Sarah Moore
A book for parents raising kids of all ages. If you're looking for a book to help you get a deeper understanding of connection-based parenting, this is a great option! Sarah is a Master Trainer at the Jai Institute for Parenting where I gained my coaching certification.
The Peaceful Parenting R(Evolution)
by Kiva Schuler
There is so much wisdom in this book, and it really helps the reader understand what needs we have as parents, and what needs are children have. It teaches parents to parent with their children instead of over or under them.
The Power of Showing Up:
How Parental Presence Shapes Who Our Kids Become and How Their Brains Get Wired
by Daniel J Siegel MD & Tina Payne Bryson
Whether you're a parent of young children or a parent of grown children, this book will facilitate healing and support you to understand what it means to really show up for our children. It's never too late - no matter your age or theirs. This book can offer much clarity and understanding of what's happening now for you and your children, and what happened when you were younger.
Raising Human Beings:
Creating a Collaborative Partnership with Your Child
by Dr Ross Greene PhD
Dr Ross Greene's books focus on solving problems with children in a collaborative way. He helps parents see different perspectives for looking at behavior and his approach is about maintaining the relationship with the child. In the end, relationships are what matters most.
Tweens | Teens
What Do You Say?
1How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance and A Happy Home
by : WIlliam Stixrud PhD
Right around the time we want to have meaningful conversations with our kids, they enter the stage where they don't want to talk as much. This book helps parents talk with their kids about boundaries, problem solving, and tricky conversations around current events
Brainstorm:
The Power and The Purpose of the Teenage Brain
by Daniel J Siegel MD
If you are a parent of a teenager or you have young kids who will grow into a teenager, this book is super helpful! Dr Siegel does an excellent job of explaining everything happening in the brain of a teenager. And he gives examples and tips on ways you can interact when challenges arise. Basically, any book by Daniel Siegel is recommended.
The Gift of Failure
How to The Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed
by Dr Ross Greene PhD
This book helps parents and educators see how we can step back and let our children fail in order to let them grow. It also brings to light the importance of intrinsic motivation. Ever feel like you're a helicopter parent, or you don't want to see your kiddo struggle? Give this one a read or listen!
A Few More
Thy Rod and Thy Staff They Comfort Me
Christians and The Spanking Controversy
by : Samuel Martin
Many Christian families were told and taught that spankings were biblical. This book shows how that is taken out of context. It's an easy read, but also detailed. The research is clear, spanking is harmful to our children's developing brains and it has lasting effects.
It's Not About the Broccoli:
Three Habits to Teach Your Kids for A Lifetime of Healthy Eating
by Dina Rose
"Dr. Rose describes the three habits - proportion, variety, and moderation - all kids need to learn, and gives you clever, practical ways to teach these food skills. There is so much wisdom in this book, and it really helps the reader understand what needs we have as parents, and what needs are children have. It teaches parents to parent with their children instead of over or under them."
Nonviolent Communication
A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships
by Marshall Rosenburg
Communication and the way we do it matters. This isn't actually a parenting book, but the information and the tools shared will help your communication so that your children are able to hear you better. It will also help you in many other relationships. Good stuff here!
Raising Human Beings:
Creating a Collaborative Partnership with Your Child
by Dr Ross Greene PhD
Dr Ross Greene's books focus on solving problems with children in a collaborative way. He helps parents see different perspectives for looking at behavior and his approach is about maintaining the relationship with the child. In the end, relationships are what matters most.
More recommendations coming. Check back soon!
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